Tuesday, June 18, 2019

Week One

We've been in Reno for a week tomorrow (Monday), and as usual, a lot has happened! We are living in an apartment in Sparks, which is 20 minutes from our area, until the couple we are replacing finishes their mission in six weeks or so. Our original report date was in August (when the Gigueres go home), but we called and asked the mission president if we could come earlier, assuming he would give us a different assignment for a few weeks.  However, we and the Gigueres are assigned to the same ward and area for the next few weeks, and it will take some good coordination for both of us to be productive!
Interesting country! This is the view from the Reno temple towards Reno

The Gigueres are from Maine, and both are retired nurses.  (We don't know why they are not serving medical-type missions (knowing how short-handed the missions are), but we don't know them well enough yet to ask that kind of questions...) We get along well, and I believe we will become fast friends over the next few weeks! Our assignment is called Member Leader Support (MLS), and our purpose is to do whatever the ward needs to bring the members closer to Christ. In some ways, MLS missions are sort of write-your-own-mission missions, so we don't know yet what shape our mission will take in the long run!  In the short-run we will spend our time getting to know ward members through visits and service, with the goal to find where we are most needed.  To tell the truth, we are a little frustrated right now at the slowness of getting started.  People don't answer their phones when unknown (like us) numbers call , and few people are home in the days, so we have more free time than we'd like!  We know that will end, and we may look back fondly on 'free time'!

In the past week we have: Helped with Transfer Day and Leadership Council lunches (Diane), been out to dinner with the Sapps and Langstons (senior couples), spent lots of money setting up the new apartment and buying food, had dinner with the Gigueres, been to the hospital twice- once for a blessing and once for a visit with a sick woman, attended the baptism of a couple taught and baptized by the Gigueres, visited a memory care nursing center (showing pictures of families and singing old classic songs with 8 patients, went with the vehicle coordinator to pick up 4 new Toyota Rav4 HYBRIDS, went to church for the first time in our new ward, met with the ward mission leader, visited a family in the ward, called for an hour to get other ward member visits, drove around the ward for what seemed like hours trying to catch members at home to introduce ourselves, set up a meeting with the bishop this week, took a set of elders to the temple to meet a recent convert woman for baptisms (I ended up baptizing her and then being baptized a few times (wonderful!!), today (P-day) drove to Donner Pass and Lake Tahoe (and did a cool hike Diane found!) and came back through Carson City. It sounds busy if you aren't full-time, but we had way too much dead-time!

The hospital blessing Monday was really special! We were at the Hardys (in the ward) for dinner along with the Gigueres and the Smiths (he is the stake patriarch) when Brother Smith got a call from the stake president, looking for someone to give a priesthood blessing to a woman in the ICU in Reno.  Coincidently (not really, Jay), two fulltime missionaries were there and we offered to go to the hospital to give the blessing. When we got there, Elder Giguere and I went into the ICU, and we spoke to the injured woman's daughter to get the background we needed. The woman, Sister Linford, is 78. She is an active member of the church who lives in a small town in Nevada, and her daughter (29) lives in Salt Lake City, but had flown down when she heard what happened.  She told us that she had made many choices she shouldn't have, and was not active in the church. Sister Linford's head injury (sustained in several falls) was very serious and the doctors had removed some bone to help the swelling go down, and were keeping her fully sedated.  We gave her a blessing, and as often happens, I was surprised what came out of my mouth during the blessing! (But I know it was true.) After we gave the mother a blessing, I was impressed to ask Amy if she would like a blessing also. She said yes with tears in her eyes, and we proceeded to give her a blessing of strength and comfort.  It was clear it had been many years since she had felt those feelings of peace and comfort, and it was certainly a special experience for each of us. I pray it will make a difference in both their lives, and I feel strongly that it will!  Feeling the influence of the Holy Ghost is wonderful, especially after a long drought.

Monday morning we drove to the town of Truckee, where Donner Pass is, spent some time in the memorial park (the museum wasn't open yet, since we left early to avoid the heat and tourists). We always wondered why the Donner party hadn't worked harder to explore other options before resorting to the worst option for survival, but when we read that the snow was 22 feet deep(!), we understood more of the difficulties! The plaque said the snow level was up to the top of the square shaft of the monument.  Then we went down to Lake Tahoe, drove around most of the north half of the lake, stopping for a hike up to an old fire lookout place. Diane is great at finding good hikes!!  The lake is spectacular, and the pictures surely don't do it justice!  I always have to (figuratively) drag Diane out of the mountains and trees, but eventually we left and drove through Carson City and back up to Reno. It was a great day, and we saw lots to do on future visits!!


Donner Party Monument


Near fire lookout on north end of Lake Tahoe

Looking south across Lake Tahoe

Thursday, June 6, 2019

Missionary Training Center

We are two-and-a-half days into our experience here in Provo, UT, and it has been GREAT and exhausting!  We have a huge group of senior missionaries this week (128 compared to the normal 70), so instead of staying in a dorm room on campus, we have a room at the Marriott Courtyard for the five days. It's nice, other than the lack of opportunity to sneak back to our room for items (or naps!). Our training is a mix of large group meetings (maybe 20%) and smaller group activities. One of the things that I think is cool is getting to teach with your companion, and I am reminded over and over what a good teacher Diane is!  Her skill and love for students (and me) is obvious to all!!

We eat in a large cafeteria along with probably 500 young missionaries (they split the 2000 in attendance into several different times), so the place is a beehive of activity, with four or five different types of food. The food is decent, although with more emphasis on filling missionaries up than gourmet options. I've enjoyed it, but Diane has had a hard time finding low-salt options, so she's eating like a rabbit again. Five days will be OK, but she'll be glad to get settled again! Today's menu included a large ice cream sunday bar, so I was in hog heaven. (I may have made one for my companion, even though I strongly suspected she wouldn't eat it. You can never be too thoughtful to your companion!!)

The spirit of the Lord is so strong here, with so many good people trying to do their best to learn and be kind! I think it's way happier than the advertised 'happiest places on earth'!  Emotions and love are always near the surface, and we love it!  Time for bed, so I'll finish tomorrow, and hopefully figure how to make this blog work and actually invite people!

Another day down, and it was another great one!!  The 7 couples and two single sisters in our district have become fast friends, and we will hate to leave them tomorrow! Most of the day was focused on helping us and the couple we are assigned to teach (and them us) become closer to Christ.  We love the other couple a lot, and will be sad to see them go, too! Their names are Elder (Craig) and Sister (Kim) Simons from Pocatello, ID, going to the Houston TX South mission to do records preservation work. He worked for the railroad as a conductor for 38 years, and she worked as a para-educator for the past few years after the kids were in school. They have five children, in the opposite configuration as us (1 girl/4 boys).  She grew up in RENO! We have a lot in common with them (in fact, we have a lot in common with almost ALL the senior missionaries!  It's (the MTC) a wonderful experience that everyone should have!! Wish I could share it better! As I get older my emotions are closer to the surface, and as everyone who knows me knows, when I feel the spirit I cry.  This week there were several times Diane had to jump in and save me and say what I couldn't get out! I need to get over that, so I can teach more effectively. Meanwhile, it's great to have a companion!

I think I'll go ahead and post this note, even though it will be boring without any pictures. I don't have the right hookups here to get the pictures off Diane's phone, so pictures may need to wait until we get settled in Reno.  Marc

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